What is the of your relationship (strained, distant, or already close)? Does she live with you, nearby, or far away ?
To help me give you more specific advice or ideas for your own situation, tell me a bit more:
Most adult children and parents have "scripts"—pre-written arguments or irritations that play out on loop. Maybe it’s about how she gives unsolicited advice, or how you never call enough. To truly shower her with love, I had to burn the script.

