We see the best version of the other person, fitting them into the romantic storyline we’ve always dreamed of.
Romantic storylines that last are those that allow for . You are not the same person you were five years ago, and neither is your partner. The beauty of a long-term relationship is getting to read the sequel of each other's lives in real-time. 5. The Power of Personal Narratives
Psychologists often suggest that the healthiest relationships are those where both individuals have a firm grasp of their own narrative. When you know your story—where you’ve been and where you want to go—you don't look for a partner to "complete" you, but rather someone to "complement" your journey. 2. The Spark: When Two Storylines Collide