People change over time. Never assume you know everything there is to know about your partner. 4. The Time Investment: The 7-7-7 Rule

Collaborative dialogue and problem-solving.

Finding middle ground where both feel their needs are considered.

Research suggests that for a marriage to thrive, there must be at least five positive interactions for every one negative interaction .

A significant romantic holiday or extended break. 5. Emotional Responsiveness: Turning Toward

"The Adored Marriage Code" is less about finding the perfect person and more about becoming the partner who actively chooses to love, listen, and learn every day. By applying these principles—from the 5:1 ratio to the 7-7-7 rule—you create a culture of safety and passion that stands the test of time.

When your partner makes a "bid" for connection—whether it’s a comment about a bird outside or a sigh of frustration—the Adored Marriage Code dictates that you rather than away. Ignoring these small bids is a leading indicator of relationship decay. Responding, even briefly, signals that they are a priority. 6. The Three C’s: The Structural Support

Instead of "How was your day?", try "What was the most interesting thing that happened today?"